Adam didn't need to search for Eve.. God gave him..

this conversation actually happened in team Building PO at Jokris' house on 16-17 January 2010...

about marriage and our life-partner.. ( ha. ha.. )

actually our age can be classified as the age that matched to this topic.. but it can't be too.

somehow.. a person who followed this conversation, whose name is Monic gave a new understanding.. actually some understanding..

first.. learn from Adam.

Adam didn't busy searching his soulmate. He kept going with his duty. to arrange the living of animal, plants in Eden.. 

"And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof." (Genesis 2:19).
"And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him." (Genesis 2:20).

and he never worried or thinking about who will be my soulmate? and look what God did..

"And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man." (Genesis 2:21-22).

second.. learn from Ruth

Ruth was loyal to her parent in law, Naomi.. she didn't search for new husband after her husband died. she stayed beside naomi and took care of her..

Ruth was working in the field to collect the corn... 

It was not when Ruth put make up on her face or dressed beautifully, Boaz has fallen in love with, but when Ruth was sweating gleaned ears of corn !! Boaz could see the love that Ruth had for Naomi..

And he knew that Ruth had the Spirit of God in herself..

so let someone fall in love with us because he/she can see Christ living in our heart.. because the one who can fall in love by that way should be someone who also has christ in their hearts..

we don't have to worry about our life partner now. because right now. while we are walking with Jesus by our side and hold His hand on the right side .. Jesus also hold someone's hand in the other side. the one who will become our partner.. just i case of time until we prepare to meet the one..

so keep living your life for Christ only. and He will give all the best thing that usually not thing that we want but thing that we NEED..

God bless..